Have you ever heard about the three words that can literally transform your life? Yes? No? Ok, let me tell you.
The three words are, Ask, Believe, Receive. Simple right?
The Universe is your catalogue that contains everything, EVERYTHYNG that you want. All you need to do is open the catalogue, find your items, place your order and patiently wait for them to arrive, knowing that they are on the way.
It’s The Law of Attraction and it works all the time. Whether we believe in it or not, is irrelevant.
Apparently, everything we already have in our lives is there because we ordered it. How crazy is that? I don’t remember ordering my second husband or the first one for that matter? And if I did order them, my goodness what was I thinking about?
Anyway, jokes aside, ever since I heard about the Law of Attraction I’ve been obsessed with learning how to use it properly. I said to myself – ‘Silvana, you must stop ordering things that you don’t want! There are no returns with the Universe.’
So, I completed several courses and even became a certified Law of Attraction practitioner and….. Well, I still haven’t attracted into my life everything I want, but I did develop deeper understanding of how this law really works.
What we must understand if we want the law of attraction to work for us is that the underlying law is the law of vibration. We must become aware that we live in the world of energy and vibration. Everything on our planet is energy. Energy that vibrates on a certain frequency. Including our bodies.
So when we think is terms of energy, vibration and frequency, where do we start?
We start from ourselves.
Because we can only attract into our lives things that are on the same frequency where we are.
So where are we?
Well, that’s a great question, because a bunch of people can be together in the same room and at the same time on a completely different frequencies.
How interesting is that?
Our frequency depends on our feelings and our feelings depend on our thoughts. We think about something and if it’s a happy thought it will make us feel good. Good feelings will bring more happy thoughts and guess what? Our vibration is high, exactly where we want it to be. Because all the good that we desire is up there, vibrating really high. The great ideas, solutions for our problems, opportunities we’ve been waiting for.
However, if our thoughts are negative, they will cause us to start worrying. Worry is a negative feeling that is expressed in our body as anxiety. And before we know it our vibration is law.
Can you guess what we keep bumping into on that low frequency?
More reasons to worry.
But then we say – ‘How am I supposed to stop worrying when there are so many things that are currently challenging in my life? I am in debt, I have no idea where the next paycheck is coming from plus I seem to be gaining weight even though I hardly eat anything.’
Ok, I get you. Let’s analyse the three words.
We need to learn to ask by focusing on what we want instead of focusing on what we don’t want. The Universe doesn’t know the difference between I want and I don’t want. So when we keep talking about everything that is wrong in our lives, we are sending all the wrong signals as the Universe thinks that that’s what we want.
It’s like, if you don’t want it, why do you keep talking about it? For instance, if we keep complaining, the Universe thinks that we love complaining and it’s kindly giving us more reasons to complain.
So, pay attention! Are you asking for what you want or what you don’t want?
It’s clear that without action nothing happens. Results are created through action. Action creates reaction, reaction creates results.
When we ask Universe to give us something, we must believe that what we asked for is coming. We express our belief through action.
Here is one example. It might sound silly but it’s true.
If someone told you to get in a car and drive east for two thousand miles because at the end of the trip, when you get there, there will be a one million pounds waiting for you to collect. If you believed that this was true, would you drive? Of course you would. But if you didn’t believe that there would be any benefit from that trip, you wouldn’t bother driving.
Although this example might be ridiculous the same applies for any other situation.
You might like someone and you might be asking Universe to put you and that person together. If you believe that that would be possible for you, you will take action and find the way to ask that person out on a date. But if you didn’t believe that this person would be interested in you and you are afraid of rejection, you might continue dreaming about this person, but you will never take any action. I believe you already know what that means. No action, no reaction, no results.
This one is my favourite. In order for us to be open to receiving we must learn to relax. And when I say relax I don’t only mean put your feet up, sit on the beach, do nothing type of relaxation. I mean relax in your belief and knowing that everything is ok. Stop being hard on yourself. Stop thinking and feeling that you’re not doing enough. Stop believing that you must try harder. Stop thinking that you should know what you don’t know. Just relax. Give yourself a break. Be kind to yourself. Do what you can and rest assured that that’s enough. Because it is.
When we learn to relax and enjoy every step of our journey called life, magic happens.
What to see that magic? You know what to do. ASK, BELIEVE, RECEIVE.
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